GIRL TALK- The TYPE to SETTLE For- My Random Thoughts

“I am not picky, I just don’t settle for less than I deserve”

I am not the best when it comes to relationship advice but I have an opinion that I want to air out, cause someone asked me to. My take when it comes to settling. You find that we all look for different thing in a relationship but the ultimate goal is happiness. If you ain’t happy, then thats not the best for you.

There are many things we may settle for in life: the meal that has fewer calories, the bad job in the right city or maybe the clothes on the sale rack. The one thing we should never settle for, however, is love.There are many average things in life, but love should not be one of them. Through the masses of mediocre, common and run-of-the-mill things that we experience day by day, love should certainly defy them all.

We should never settle for someone who could walk away and not turn back, one who doesn’t recognise what he is holding when embracing our hands or someone who doesn’t remind us every day of how much we mean to him.

What you deserve is someone missing you the moment you walk out the door, even if you’ll only be gone a moment. You deserve someone who may not believe in fairytales, but who treats you like a princess simply because that’s what you are to him.

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You deserve someone who will challenge you instead of just giving in. Someone who will share his honest thoughts with you because you’re going to share your honest lives together; yet, someone who knows how to forgive and to be happy instead of being right always.

Whats that type you look for? Whats that type you choose to settle for.

thanks for stopping by,

Faye

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4 thoughts on “GIRL TALK- The TYPE to SETTLE For- My Random Thoughts

  1. Hi Elizabeth, I have nominated you for the Liebster award. ((“the Liebster is passed around the blogging community to those who have fewer than 200 followers.”))

    The nomination asks for you to answer 10 questions from your Nominator as well as set 10 of your own and nominate blogs of your choice who will then do the same.

    For my questions to the nominees (these are on my blog as well)

    Who is your role model?
    Do you have any regrets in life
    What is your favourite movie?
    If you could have a super power what would it be and why?
    What are your lucky numbers
    Name something you are afraid of?
    What is your fondest childhood memory?
    Define yourself in 5 words?
    What is your greatest achievement this far?
    Why or how did you start blogging?

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  2. Who is your role model?
    Jesus, I mean the Bible Jesus
    Do you have any regrets in life
    Not starting blogging years ago,
    Not working out in my early teens
    What is your favourite movie?
    August Rush
    If you could have a super power what would it be and why?
    Heal the sick, I hate seeing people in Pain and agony, thats why I decided to pursue a medical career
    What are your lucky numbers
    7. somehow 7 works for me.
    Name something you are afraid of?
    Snakes and not accomplishing my dreams
    What is your fondest childhood memory?
    unwrapping new presents on boxing day. Its been one of our Family traditions
    Define yourself in 5 words?
    Humble, Extrovert, dynamic, Loyal and loving
    What is your greatest achievement this far?
    Starting my PhD and my blog
    Why or how did you start blogging?
    I have random thoughts that all this long sat in my small diary, I needed to share some of the experiences in my life. I love pictures and blogging has an element of pictures. I am a writer, I have always written but my writings only stayed on my note pads. To help me inspire someone as i also pick inspiration from fellow bloggers.
    To appreciate life in its fullest.
    How I started? I sat down and jokingly started writing my first blog, i liked the feeling that evening, there on, I continued and I am still continuing. My Blog is my small world with big dreams J

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  3. I agree with you on this. A few years ago when I was about 21 someone said to me that I’m difficult, I behave like my man must fall from heaven (so not true considering I’m one of those people that give others the benefit of the doubt.. ). Anyway I feel like it’s not fair to settle for less than you feel you deserve.. We must all make compromises at some point but it’s unfair on yourself to compromise on things you feel are against the things you value or stand for… My two cents… Great Read 🙂

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